fix(watcher): refusals end in a terminal state; pin every converted writer (#158)

Review round 1 on PR #195:
- A refused marker or archive write left no marker, so the note was
  reprocessed every interval (archive copies piling up; an LLM call per
  round on the failure path). The marker check now uses Lstat (any entry
  at the marker path counts, so a dangling marker link skips the note
  instead of looping), and a note whose archive copy or marker write is
  refused is remembered (path, size, mtime) and not retried until it
  changes.
- cleanRel no longer refuses a backslash: it is a legal filename byte on
  Linux, not a traversal, and a raw note named with one was never
  archived or marked.
- Tests now reach every converted writer: the log.md append (real
  raw/failed so the log is reached, symlinked log.md), a dangling marker
  link, the refused-retry loop with a positive control, a backslash name,
  a buildAndWrite swap race, and the claude-session archive with in-brain
  and outside symlinked archive dirs. The stale lint allowlist entry for
  appendWatcherLog is removed.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

ingestion/internal/pipeline/root_test.go

@@ -190,3 +190,28 @@ func TestBackfillRefsNeverWritesThroughAPageSwappedForASymlink(t *testing.T) {
 	assert.Equal(t, "untouched", string(got), "BackfillRefs wrote through a swapped-in symlink")
 	assert.Positive(t, ok, "positive control: some backfills ran")
 }
+
+// hyperguild#158: buildAndWrite wrote each page with os.WriteFile by path, so
+// a page read as regular and swapped for a symlink before the write was
+// written through. The target is not restored between rounds, so any
+// write-through shows.
+func TestBuildAndWriteNeverWritesThroughAPageSwappedForASymlink(t *testing.T) {
+	brain := t.TempDir()
+	mkdirs(t, brain, "wiki/sources", "wiki/concepts", "wiki/entities", "raw")
+	page := filepath.Join(brain, "wiki", "concepts", "zq-concept.md")
+	target := filepath.Join(brain, "raw", "secret.md")
+	require.NoError(t, os.WriteFile(target, []byte("untouched"), 0o644))
+	inside := "---\ntitle: Zq Concept\n---\nbody\n"
+	require.NoError(t, os.WriteFile(page, []byte(inside), 0o644))
+	pages := []RawPage{{Title: "Zq Concept", Type: "concept", Content: "## About\n\nmore\n"}}
+	brainfstest.StartSwap(t, page, inside, target, false)
+	ok := 0
+	for deadline := time.Now().Add(2 * time.Second); time.Now().Before(deadline); {
+		if _, err := RunRaw(context.Background(), brain, "zq source", pages, false); err == nil {
+			ok++
+		}
+	}
+	got, _ := os.ReadFile(target)
+	assert.Equal(t, "untouched", string(got), "buildAndWrite wrote through a swapped-in symlink")
+	assert.Positive(t, ok, "positive control: some runs wrote the page")
+}