test: pin the edit symlink refusal, AppendRegular's clean check and Remove (#188)

Review round 1 on PR #189 (three tests stayed green with their guard
removed):
- TestEditRefusesANoteBehindASymlinkedDirectory had no .git, so Edit
  refused "not the sync source" before any path check. It now has one,
  plus a positive control.
- AppendRegular's unclean-path case was refused by a final symlink, not
  cleanRel. New test where ".." after a symlinked dir resolves to a real
  file, for AppendRegular and PutRegular.
- brainfs.Remove had no test; new one (refuses behind a symlinked dir,
  removes a final link but never its target, positive control).

Also: promote/reject create with O_EXCL (new brainfs.CreateRegular), so a
note that appears after the collision check is never overwritten;
gofmt fixes in provenance.go and wiki/log.go; dead wingDir and
putBrainFile removed.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 5.5 <noreply@anthropic.com>

ingestion/internal/provenance/provenance.go

@@ -101,7 +101,6 @@ func Apply(content string, s Stamp) (string, error) {
 	return out, nil
 }
 
-
 // plainGroups keeps the provably plain key groups of a frontmatter block.
 func plainGroups(block string) string {
 	lines := strings.Split(strings.TrimSuffix(block, "\n"), "\n")